A low credit score isn't any reason to call off an engagement—but that doesn't mean you should be forking over three-months' salary either.
Congratulations! You’ve found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with! In a world full of bad Tinder dates, you scored a keeper, and that is no easy feat. Now all that’s left to do is find a ring and plan the perfect proposal.
The thing is … engagement rings are, uh, expensive. According to a recent survey from Wedding Wire, the average cost of an engagement ring is $4,758—not exactly chump change!
So how can you get the bling you need to adorn her ring finger when your budget is tight and your credit is shot? Never fear! There are myriad ways someone with bad credit can snap up an engagement ring.
Throw out the old rules.
Have you heard of the “three-month rule?” That’s the outdated notion that whoever is buying the engagement ring (typically the dude) must spend the equivalent of THREE MONTHS’ SALARY on it.
If you’re considering getting engaged, you’ve probably heard about this expectation, and if you’re the one doing the asking, you’ve likely spent a good amount of time stressing about that.
Here’s the thing, though. You don’t need to follow that rule. Think about it: that rule is insane. Most Americans don’t even have $1,000 in savings, let alone three months of their salary ready to be spent on a diamond ring.
If you DO have three months’ salary squirreled away, it’s probably in an emergency fund, and not something you can just liquidate to buy a symbol of your love for your partner. Think of what else that kind of money could buy—it could be a down payment on a house, a seriously decadent honeymoon, a car, or even groceries for a year.
If your future fiancé(e) is likely to throw a fit about the price of his or her ring, you might want to reconsider tying your life to theirs forever.
If all else fails, buy something you can afford for now, and start saving so you can eventually replace it with something a little flashier.
Open a credit card with a no-interest intro period.
Because so few Americans have the money for an engagement ring already saved up, many cash-strapped lovers turn to the noble credit card in order to finance their engagement dreams. But this approach can be tricky.
Even if you have a credit card with a limit that exceeds your three-month threshold, using it to charge a pricey engagement ring can cost you serious cash in the long run. Think about the interest that would accrue every month on a $5,000 balance – it’s not pretty.
If you insist on charging it, the best thing to do is to open a new credit card with an introductory zero-percent APR promotional period. Typically these periods last for six, 12 or 18 months, during which time you won’t be charged interest on your credit card balance.
If you can pay off the price of the ring within that time, you won’t have paid a cent more than its retail value.
Try financing through your jewelry store.
The problem with relying on credit cards to buy an engagement ring? Not everyone has access to the same level of credit. Those zero-percent APR cards are typically only offered to people with good credit, so if you have bad credit—or worse—NO credit, you’re gonna be out of luck.
Still, many jewelry stores offer zero-percent APR financing for customers, with a catch, of course. That catch? You’ll be signing up for a store credit card. This sounds OK in theory, but in practice, it could get you into some hot financial waters.
The amount you’ll be charging will likely be towards the top of your available credit limit on that card, your credit utilization rate will skyrocket, which could bring down your score significantly until you can pay off that balance.
Additionally, when that no-interest period (usually around six months) is up, if you haven’t yet paid off your purchase in full, you could be charged interest from the date of purchase, which kind of defeats the point.
Look for vintage or pawned jewelry.
Do you really want to buy your future spouse an expensive cookie-cutter ring? Why not look for options that fit their unique personality, a ring that none of their friends will be flaunting on their fingers.
Check your local vintage shops for one-of-a-kind pieces that won’t break the bank. If your partner is more of a traditionalist, try your local pawn shop for more a more up-to-date selection of diamond rings at a fraction of their retail cost.
Don’t die for diamond.
Yeah, diamonds are pretty. They’re sparkly and clear and they look like shiny, unmelted ice. We get it! But diamonds have only recently become the go-to stone for engagements, and there are other stones out there with a similar look and feel that don’t cost as much as a used car. For example:
- Man-made (or lab-grown) diamonds: Chemically, these are exactly the same as mined diamonds, but they’re typically priced 15 to 20 percent less than their Earth-grown counterparts.
- Moissanite: This crystal-clear stone is almost as tough as a diamond, and, according to TIME, “actually has greater brilliance and fire (gemologist jargon for sparkle and light-dispersion).” Plus, moissanite is naturally found in meteorites, which makes it the perfect stone for the star in your life.
- Ruby, emerald, topaz, etc: What’s your sweetheart’s favorite color? Chances are, it’s not clear. Find out and buy a ring with a gemstone in that color. Even the more precious stones like ruby or sapphire cost a fraction of the price of a comparably-sized diamond.
- Plain metal: If your future spouse isn’t the flashy type, get a solid gold or silver band instead. “My dad proposed to my mom with a simple silver ring he found at an Irish flea market,” reports one of our bloggers. “They’ve been married almost 30 years and she still wears it to this day.”
Remember, at the end of the day, you don’t need an engagement ring to get engaged. All you need is love. If you still want to buy a rock for your rock, go for it! Just make sure you stay within your means so you don’t start off your married life on the wrong financial foot.
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